Have you ever heard someone comment on another person’s behavior by saying that they have a big ego? What does it mean? Generally speaking when someone is saddled with this label it means that the individual is perceived as conceited, self-centered, perfectionistic, having to always be right, having difficulty accepting criticism, self-absorbed or arrogant. Of course they may exhibit all or none of these negative traits, but more than likely they may have an inflated opinion of themselves that gets between them and healthy relationships; one of which being their relationship with the market as they trade. The person in question may be a good guy overall, it’s just that they may be so caught up in self-protection (defense mechanisms that thwart an honest interaction with the environment) or self-promotion (inflated notions of one’s importance over others) that they become distracted and begin to distort data. Often, the individual that suffers from ego inflation issues also has a part of themselves that is not only aware that there are issues, but actually attempts to override the self-sabotaging behavior that develops as an outcome of self-defeating emotions like anger, fear, anxiety, stubbornness and impatience. It’s tantamount to having different parts of yourself show up in challenging situations that make mindful execution of the trade all but impossible causing impulsive entries, chasing trades, moving stops and other unwanted rule violations.

You don’t have to be mentally ill to have different personalities reside in your body? Actually, it is quite normal to have various “parts” of yourself emerge at different times depending on what is going on at the moment. If fact, these parts of the self speak different languages and see different things as well; which is why you may wondered how you made a glaring mistake after becoming seduced by your illusions of what the charts were really showing in the wake of a loss. This kind of personal and emotional volatility can wreck your trading account. Similar to the market, personal volatility is a direct reflection of the emerging emotions of the masses as they trade furiously, impulsively, compulsively and at times capriciously. The market is continually sending messages; messages about volume, momentum, and volatility. But, those messages are best captured by first attending to your own volatility so that you can see the charts as they are. In a subsequent blog I’ll outline the main points of how this works so that you can hone your focus to a laser precision on what matters most in your trading and in your life.